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Stop struggling. You are trapped in a karmic cycle.

  • Writer: Tenara Lee
    Tenara Lee
  • 7 days ago
  • 10 min read

Updated: 2 days ago

We cannot struggle enough to get ourselves out of struggle. That was never the mandate. God never said you had to come down to this earth and stay stuck in a negative timeline of lack and limitation so that one day you could, you know, earn your worth and break free. That is not how it works.


So this whole idea of struggling just a little bit more, being stronger, tolerating more, hanging in there so that one day things will change is nothing but a delusion.


You need to ditch your lower reality timelines. You do this by having an internal energetic shift. Now, this shift that is required for you to ditch your lower reality timelines and actually move yourself onto a trajectory of more joy and relief and health and wealth and connectivity and all the good things, you're going to need to face all of the reasons why you were staying stuck in those struggle timelines in the first place. And I'll tell you right now, it's all about fear.


And when we're scared, we try to control. So if we're afraid that there's not going to be enough money, what do we do? We hang on to our money. We hang on to this shitty job that we don't really want.


If we're afraid that nobody's ever going to love us, there's not enough love in the world, what do we do? We stay in our toxic relationship because something is better than nothing, right? So it's all about fear.


And when we're scared, we try to control reality and micromanage and grip on really tightly to what we have because we're afraid that if we let go, nothing will come in to replace it. This is the mentality of struggle, of poverty, of lack, of scarcity.


And this is a state of being that just keeps us looping and looping in the same shitty karmic situations. So the first thing that you want to do is say no, right? If you can't take it anymore, don't. And I'm not telling you to be defiant or to rebel or to go apeshit on people. That's not what I'm saying.


I'm saying that you need to put up a boundary with this whole struggle game and say, no, I choose myself. I choose my honor.


I choose my worth that is inherent to me. I don't have to earn it. It is already here, right? No matter what I do, no matter what I look like, no matter what my bank account says, my worth is undebatable and I choose it.


And I'm not going to stay in this lower reality timeline, playing small, hoping to get something out of nothing. I'm not going to stay in this toxic relationship or in this toxic situation or whatever it is, trying to hang in there so that one day it's going to turn around and give me the fruits that I truly desire in this life.


But you don't need to necessarily walk out of your crappy apartment or quit your job or do the thing as the first step, because first you need to get your energy in alignment and you need to say no and go through this whole release, this whole purging process.


Because as soon as you start to really entertain the idea of letting go of these lower reality timelines, all your stuff is going to come up. Your fears, your angers, your uncertainty, your ego, shame, I'm not good enough. Like so much is going to come up.


So before you even do the thing, like quitting the job or whatever, I'm not saying don't do that. I'm just saying that you need your energy to be in alignment first. So before you take action and walk out of your circumstances, make sure that you go through this internal shift.


And it might require an entire emotional meltdown. You might have to get to ground zero within yourself and do this really big letting go before you can even pivot your consciousness and look at something different. Now I'm not talking about pivoting and looking at something different at the level of your mind.


I'm talking about a full body, full surrender, full emotional, energetic body pivot.


And so like, okay, think about the people that get a diagnosis and they have three months left to live. And then all of a sudden they start living their life like fearlessly because they've got that time limit there and it shifts them dramatically on the inside.


That's what I'm talking about. We have to have this really deep letting go. Like what if it was all over? What if you had nothing left to lose? What if you were going to die tomorrow? What if your whole toxic timeline crumbled on you anyway, despite you hanging in there? What if the whole thing just goes pear-shaped, right? And they fire you from your crappy job or your crappy partner who doesn't respect you walks out on you anyway.


Like, what if it all falls apart? What would you do? How would you need to surrender? How would you pivot? Right?


So just going through that energetic shift, that perspective shift is going to require you to face yourself and to face all of your pain and your fears coming up.


And you might have to journal it out and purge it out and cry it out and get to your rock bottom and get to that place of neutrality where you let go. Right? You still haven't walked out of your crappy apartment left yet. You're just like, you're doing all of this internally. And you get to that letting go point. And then that's when some space opens up inside of you some energetic space opens up.


That's when your heart center gets lit up and you get stronger and you can start to feel your real power, your magnetic power, right? And then you can think like, what would I do if it was all going to fall apart? How would I change?


What decision could I possibly make that would bring me more joy or at the very least more relief, right? And then go there, take action, be with that impulse, even if it's just a breadcrumb.


And it's most likely only going to be a breadcrumb because we don't know all of the steps up front. We only get this impulse or this idea or this inspiration for the next step because every step we take on the path is an initiation.


So you don't know what it's like to hold the frequency of the being that is 10 steps ahead of you and walking in faith and making totally different decisions that honor themselves. And that level of expansion is not quite visible to you yet, right?


You just need to take the next step and have faith.


So getting out of the struggle timelines is number one, just even understanding cognitively and emotionally that they're a loop, that struggle is only going to get you more struggle, right? Staying in there, hanging in there for the next paycheck or waiting for your lover to finally really see you or respect your boundaries, like stop waiting for the outside to reflect your worth back to you.


You need to be the one who goes through this energetic shift, does the purge of all the fears and the controls and everything and says, you know what? Fuck that shit. I'm worth it. I'm worth more.


I am priceless. I am a divine child of God, and I'm not going to play small in these scarcity, lack timelines anymore. I know that I am a powerful creator and I'm doing this whole letting go process.


I know this is an inside game and I'm going to pivot towards my joy. And if I can't feel my joy because I've been so bogged down by these lower reality timelines, I'm at the very least going to pivot towards relief. What provides expansion? What provides a sense of space and like lightness and like, ah, okay, well, that would feel better.


Yeah, that'd be amazing if that happened. And then you take action on it, but you don't need to go all the way at once, because if you've been really living in these lower reality timelines of lack and scarcity and toxicity, you're not at that frequency yet. And there's no shame in that.


It's just that every step we take is a full blown frequency upgrade. It is a full on initiation. And so we need to be honest with ourselves about the frequency that we're really embodying and not the one we think we're embodying like in our mental brain.


Like in my head, I'm a billionaire and I have a jet and I'm doing all these things, but like really in reality, your body, your electromagnetic field, you might just be okay with like quitting your job.


You might just need to take that first step, right? You're not flying a private jet yet. It's good in the mind, but we need to work with our actual frequency, right? Our actual vibration. We're not doing this in the mind.


We're doing this for real, energetically. And energetically, we need this shift. We need to hold this next level frequency before the physical world reflects it back to us.


So you tell God, you tell the universe, I don't play small like that anymore. I'm not trying to, what's that expression? Like is the juice worth the squeeze or whatever? Like I'm not trying to get something from nothing. I am going to let go of controlling, let go of keeping my head down like a good little slave in society and hoping that something will come of it one day, because that's like the mentality of the matrix, right? That is slave mentality.


And that has nothing to do with honoring myself. That has nothing to do with choosing myself. That has nothing to do with my soul path.


That's just keeping me stuck in a karmic loop. So I say no, but as soon as I say no and really start to let go, all my stuff's going to come up. And then you deal with that and you have a purge and you get to that point where you consider what would happen? What would I choose if I had nothing left to lose? What if I was going to die tomorrow? How would I bring joy into my life today? And then you take action and hold that frequency.


And you're going to have to act in faith. You're going to be in the void because you haven't been claiming your worth yet. So you don't have momentum going in that direction.


So you're going to have to step out first and say, yes, I am worthy. And then it will be reflected back to you. I do this process almost every day because I have a very intense path in this life and I have to clear all the time so that I don't get conditioned and fall back into any timelines that I know I've already outgrown or that I know don't serve me.


So I'm always going through this purging process and clearing and pivoting and then taking action. And let me tell you what, the universe catches me. God catches me every single time. Every time.


When you take that leap of faith and you're actually holding that frequency, you're like, okay, okay, I did the clearing. I did all that internal work. I released it.


You might still be sitting in your crappy apartment, like I said, and you go in the direction of your next level up, you will be met. The universe will catch you. And the way that things will pan out is so incredible because it's always much more beautiful and magnificent than anything that your mind could have planned.


And it's also totally different. Like the things that I'm planning for my next level up, I'm like, yeah, I want to do this. And I want it to look like that. And I want to go to this place. And that's all fine and dandy.


But the universe is like, yeah, okay, whatever here. And it's like, it unveils this whole other reality timeline for me, this whole other situation. I'm like, whoa, this is way better. I would have never guessed this was my next step, but okay, this is awesome. I'll take it. And of course, there's a whole new set of challenges with that too, because we're always evolving.


It's not like you get there and then stop like, okay, it's all good. Now I'm on my abundance timeline and everything's perfect. No.


It's a constant recalibration of your energy, but it starts with you choosing yourself and ditching those lower reality timelines by saying, no, I know this is a loop. I know this is a lie.


I know this is conditioning and I'm not going to do it anymore. And I choose myself and I'm going to let go.


Letting go is stepping into your strength. Letting go is stepping into faith and it allows you to receive those intuitive impulses and then you can take action on them. But don't take action before, because you're just going to recreate the same bullshit timelines you're trying to get out of.


You're going to have to take action in an entirely new direction. It can't be a new version of the old. It has to be something that's really different.


Something that really requires you to step into a new frequency and hold it. And that my friend is internal work. This is all internal energetic work up until we get to the last step where we're taking action.


And by that point, you're already there because you have done all the clearing work, all the releasing work, all the faith work and stepped out and held your frequency and claimed your worth and chose yourself. You did all of that stuff. So by the time you take the action, it's actually pretty easy.


The hard part is the internal work, is the process of release and stepping into faith and choosing yourself. This is how we get out of the struggle timelines.


This is how we ditch our lower realities, the ones you don't want to be in. You don't get out of them by trying harder, by trying to prove your worth or hoping that you're going to finally get a permission slip from your lover or from the government or from your boss or whatever that, okay, now it's time for you to step up. They're never going to give you your freedom. They're never going to grant you your worth.


They're never going to be able to facilitate this huge timeline jump for you because it's up to you because you are a powerful creator.


Okay. I'm going to stop there because that feels really complete and I want to thank you for listening. Thank you so much for your presence. I love you a whole lot and I will see you in the next one. Bye.


 
 
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